Advice: When co-workers ridicule patients
Patients shouldn’t be ridiculed
DEAR ABBY» I work as a receptionist in a small medical office. I love my job, but I cannot tolerate when my coworkers make fun of our patients.
Sometimes it happens while the patients are still in the exam rooms, maybe within earshot.
Even the doctor contributes to this crudeness.
Some examples: “Did you see the size of that guy’s nose?” or, “What’s with the color of her hair?” or, “He smells like he hasn’t had a bath in weeks.” This goes on throughout the day every day. Is there anything I can do or say to change this mindset? We have great patients.
— At A Loss For Words
DEAR AT A LOSS» The person who’s responsible for the lack of respect for the patients is your employer, the doctor. If this is happening sometimes within earshot of the patients, I am, frankly, shocked that he or she has a medical practice. There is nothing you can do to change the culture in that environment. Because it upsets you — and I can certainly see why it would — you might be happier working for another doctor.
DEAR ABBY» My daughter “Tiffany” is 12. Her best friend, “Wendy,” lives down the block. We are good friends with her parents.
How do I put this: Wendy is a thief. She has no impulse control. When she comes over, she helps herself to whatever is lying around, mostly candy and trinkets. For this reason, we no longer allow friends into our children’s rooms.
Recently, another item went missing, and my daughter spotted it at Wendy’s house. I told her she should say something and take it back, but she is shy. I want to say something to the parents, but I’m afraid it will ruin our friendship. I don’t think the mother knows her daughter does these things. Any ideas?
— Sticky Fingers
DEAR STICKY FINGERS » If the shoe was on the other foot and your daughter was stealing things from her friends’ homes, wouldn’t you want to know what was going on so you could deal with it? Talk to Wendy’s mother! Tell her you don’t want to spoil a friendship you treasure, but Wendy has a problem she needs to know about.
If you ignore it, the problem will only escalate.
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- Posted On: 4/29/2021 6:33:21 AM
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